I bet you seen it in almost every corner of every place, quite literally I must say. But doesn’t it make you flinch, and stare at them incongruently… I mean I don’t know if that’s my specific problem or if people actually think the same way as I do… but hell yea, I am repulsed when I see these couple-dolittles walking hand in hand, where the girl is more concerned that if the sparkles of her skirt are still shinning, and the guy walking like a hunk, trying to act cool… or when you see them in the metro compartment almost into each other… people give it a break… wish they realize what public places or public transport means… and then most of the times the girls are cribbing about what’s with their life or people around them, while the guy tries to act as though he’s listening patiently… I don’t understand why people can’t just be who they are… with our without anyone… and yea, another fact, people seem to have lost their identities too, if you meet some friend of yours, the girl or guy standing next to them would be introduced as girlfriend or boyfriend rather than them having a name and that they happen to be together… Yes, sometimes I see, rather most of times I see people go out just for the fun of it or because they couldn’t resist puberty changes in them… somehow, I try to analyze and then I see, how insecure they are themselves that they want to lean on someone… without realizing their own identity… Girls are stuck to the phone day and night, laughing and getting shy without realizing that the guy isn’t looking at her… or the guy checking out on the girlfriends’ friends and girls who pass by… what are they trying to pretend or who are they trying to fool, I know not…
But of course, there are those ones too who make you smile, ones who make feel you need one too, those ones, who are themselves, and not all so gooy or fake… those ones who make you see, what relationships actually mean… but those are definitely rare cases, like one in 10 metro stations… :P , and mostly in dreams and movies…
But apart form that, I think people need to grow up, to realize what relationships actually mean, and not because if two people are of opposite sex, so they are bound to be together… Relationships are more than just kisses and hugs, more than the fancy gifts and life size teddy bears, relationships happen when you can understand one another, talk about the universe, laugh together, crazily fool around and yet enjoying every moment together… its about the perfect balance, that if too sweet becomes too hard to take or too much salt loses its taste… its not just about making out and breaking up, its more about working it out, even if doesn’t feel perfect, its about waiting and believing for things to change, its about giving it a try till you are exhausted by its very presence… its about being yourself and being in love rather than not even knowing who you are… its about finding peace and solace rather than a few seconds of infatuation…
Its about loving someone’s soul, rather than his face… its about realizing your own mistakes and rectifying, its about accepting what’s around you and in you….
In the end, its all about you…
