Guys for centuries have never understood the way girls think or react, and girls find it rather weird that they don’t even understand that much which is so very obvious… so this goes out to all the guys who wonder how the neural networks of a girl’s brain work and theirs just fuses or goes into a blank mode of “??” state…
If you love a girl, then you should mean it, like really, mean it, and please don’t just keep those feelings buried too deep within your heart, for she’ll have a tough time digging it out, and would rather tire out…
So the next question of yours would be, how am I supposed to tell her that I love her, I really do, but she just doesn’t believe me… oh dear, first of all, when she says she doesn’t believe you, she actually is trying to take out what’s inside you, what you really feel about her, so that she is convinced of your stand… (and not literally what she says) …
Now there are different ways in which you could please her, and be her man, firstly you should know what she likes and dislikes, in terms of food, color, movie, cloth, drama, politics, books, life and everything under the sun… No, no, don’t go questioning her with the above list like a kaun banega crorepati contest, rather learn about it by spending time with her, over the span of few months…
And oh, being The Bodyguard or chacha chaudhary’s Sabu is a big NO-NO. Give her space to breathe, have her social life, and study life and you shall be welcomed like a prince long missed… yes, we know, she’s your world, and you just can’t let go off her, but then it’ll be like the bird in the golden cage, who at first loved to come back to you after every flight, but now caged would suffer in your own very loving arms…
And you can do away with all the little white sugar-coated lies, that would rise her expectations or something, causes she seeks for you to be an honest judge yet not harsh on her, I know, tough job guys, but what you get, nothing else can replace….
And here comes the bonanza :: Girls Love Surprises !! And if you would’ve noticed, she’s tried to surprise you more than once but a girl’s heart is such, that her expectations only rise multifold…and so you must, reciprocate, even though she never says it blatantly on your face… Girls love to underplay, but then guys fail to see one step beyond… surprise her with flowers, hugs, kisses, surprise visits, or make something for her with your own hands… And no, you shouldn’t be the one paying all the bills, or gifting gifts of money power, she’d only smile, but she knows that it wasn’t something you made, and soon would tire of all that money buys… what she'd never tire of, and something with which her heart would smile, would be a gift you made…. If she loves you, she cares about you, and nah, that doesn’t mean that you make her pay all the bills all the time, rather share it 50-50 or alternate treats…
And continue the little things that make love, love … all the little things that matter… smile to her that smile when you first fell in love with her, sing to her even if you aren’t a singer, dance with her even if you don’t know an ‘s’ of the salsa… write to her letters, surprise her with an old picture of the two of you, make a memory chit box of all that you two shared, dress up as a clown one day (nah, not in public, she’d rather run away, but do the futterwhack when no one is around), paint for her, photograph her, whatever that comes naturally to you… and the way you feel… let it out, and express it with love, for after all, ain’t she the one you love ? Don’t you want to let her know what you feel for her, or will you let her do the guessing game with your mind, that rather turns out sour…
Cause in the end, she is your princess, so crown her with all your love…
P.S :: this note is for guys in relationship, but unable to figure out what his girl wants, and oh,statuary warning for guys :: beware of girls who don’t take out their purse for any meal or call you up only when they want to shop :P (love is way away in a far island for you, dear boys, for thou art their atm in cases like those.) and neither this is for “desperate homeboys seeking love” :P
And of course, they’ll always exist the stereotypes of life-size teddy bears, plastic white teeth smiles, and partners of sex and break-ups … nor is this note meant for them… To them, I salute, for they’ve found peace in no-love-shove-jhamela…. :P (an uptrend skill in the 21st Century you know… )
Celebrate love,
Its like an everyday festival that makes you smile…
So Happy b’day to lovers, and dreamers, and retired lovers …
Cause love infects, whether you like it or not…
