No more a Juliet in dreamy lands that end up having a Juliet sorta death with Romeo turning out to be too tried of drama :P
Here are the list of who my next guy (if ever exists in this lifetime of mine shall be) ::
1. Knows a lot about physics, doesn't go blank when I say something about the crab nebula 6500 light years away or thinks of photon as what’s written on the tata-photon+ 3g net card.
2. Comprehends my unending thought train, in and about everything from psychological theories about social structures to parallel universes to science of dreaming to bio-mechanism of the eye and so on. Rather than finding me weird.
3. Deeply interested in poetry, literature, art, music, dance, photography, making documentaries or a new field of creative exploration and expression.
4. Not the I-met-you-last-night-I-fell-for-you (adrenaline junkie, who awaits the rush of a beginning of a relationship for he’s been lacking one) who later turns out to have enjoyed his share and leaves. When in senses, realizes his commitment-phobia.
5. Not the I-shall-die-for-you (obsessive and overprotective) guy who plans to marry you, no matter how he treats you, cause you shall be the only one, whether he abuses you, plays with you, uses you, you shall turn out to be a worn out cushion bag by the end of it.
6. Not the I-fear-to-hurt-you guy who’s ready to sacrifice himself for he believes you shall be better off, or just can’t face, cause you are too good. And leaves thereafter.
7. Adventure sports should be his game, bungee jumping, biking mountain roads, trekking, rafting and so on, also apart from that should atleast be good at swimming, skating, basketball and badminton. Plus interested in watching football, oh yes, should be good enough to teach me football and not just kicking the ball.
8. Not a bloated-with-pride guy, but down to earth, concerned for public, also politically aware of things around him.
9. Not a sexually frustrated guy who watches porn day in and day out.
10. Doesn't smoke or do drugs.
11. Girls have never been such an integral part of his life, till he meets me.
12. Writes and reads.
13. Basically should be intellectually challenging and stimulating and also at the same time “human”.
14. Most importantly, should’ve known me and been my best friend atleast for a minimum of 2 years.
Though I wouldn’t want the guy to have won the nobel prize, or the oscars, or in national team or so (ah, though that’d be a really nice starting point, but nah, he’d be too up in air with those credits in his pocket) but well, just another person, who shall be atleast at par with me, I am not an academy award winner or so, but neither am I the girl-next-door. I’ve learnt my lesson in due time, and I write this not just very logically, and intuitively but also with experience. Rather a note as a reminder for me, the next time I get into some trouble and a guy lingers around me, and I fall into my own trap of fairytale drama land only to wake up with the world having sped at the speed of light, whilst I stare at my dusted-self. And maybe in this list, I might have already denied 99% of men population to be my suitors. I still am firm on my list, and amendments can be made according to the situation but no more than 5% of already what there is. And did I just list that down, cause I wanted to sit and admire these qualities ? No. I myself, am an explorer, who does, all that is listed above and a bit more, but of course, without recognition, and am I too bloated to be saying all out that about me ? No, just self-respect, stating all that I look for in someone is nothing more uncommon than it should be to me. And I’d very happily say, I am perfectly happy on my own, and wish to be that way for long now. But if ever another guy pops up, dreamily thinking of me, I’d be rather happy to tag him in this note XP
Sorry, I am NOT available.
Happy friendship day :P
Glad to be your friend forever !
